I’ve cheated. I’m not proud of it. I was a big kid in high school when everyone is pretty shallow and I never really had girlfriends. As I got older and my confidence grew and it became less about what I looked like and more about who I was as a person, I found myself with more options sexually. I had a girlfriend, but still had that feeling that I deserved to have more sex with multiple people, now that the opportunities were arising. To quote Childish Gambino, I was “just making up for fucks I missed in high school.” That’s my shitty rationale for doing a shitty thing. Here are some other people’s takes on the subject: