At some point in your life, you’ve probably wondered where you rank on your partner’s hierarchy of boning prowess in comparison with his or her previous partners.

We all want to think we’re the best sex a person has had.

But it’s an awkward thing to bring up. This video proves it:

The video is among the many featured in The And, a very interesting interactive documentary from filmmaker Topaz Adizes. If you visit the site and answer some personal questions, it assembles a series of videos that might resonate with you.