Online dating proves exhausting rather quickly, especially as a woman seeking men. Dudes can sometimes take a normal conversation and nosedive it into sex talk. A woman could mention that you enjoy poetry by Bly and you’re learning to cook French cuisine and there’s a chance she’ll get something about writing a poem about Frenchin’ below his belly button as a response. So Sy Thomas decided to gain some perspective by posing as a woman in the online dating world to gain some messaging tips. This is what happened.