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Advisor: Am I a Freak for Not Loving Oral?

Advisor: Am I a Freak for Not Loving Oral?: JLT

JLT

When my partner and I have sex, she wants to perform oral on me until I finish. I enjoy it, but I just don’t have the desire to reach orgasm during oral sex. I prefer to finish during actual intercourse. Her wet, warm vagina feels much better, and I have stronger orgasms. She is frustrated. Why am I not on the popular blow-job-orgasm train, and why do I prefer to finish at the final station?S.F., Madison, Wisconsin

Don’t be so sure the blow-job-orgasm train is as packed as you think it is. Sure, there’s a possibility your partner hasn’t mastered the finer points of applied friction and rhythm. But you’re clearly not the only man who prefers the physical and psychological satisfaction of achieving orgasm through vaginal sex, as evidenced by the continued survival of the human race. After all, ejaculating in a woman’s vagina is the biological gold standard. Despite our desire for variety in the bedroom, the evolutionary urge to come inside clearly continues to win out.


This question is from the OCT 2014 issue of Playboy. To read the rest of this Advisor column, click here.

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