I love going down on my wife. What are the risks for my mouth and throat regarding whatever bacteria or viruses may normally be found down there? Neither of us has ever had another partner.Y.W., Queens, New York

If you are both as virginal as you say, then you have little to worry about and should enjoy your comparatively unique status as each other’s lifetime one and only. There is a small chance that if she were to have a yeast infection you might develop an oral yeast infection, known as thrush, but it’s treatable and should in no way discourage you from having your cake and eating it too.

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