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Step up Your O Game: 10 Positions to Bring her to Orgasm

Some of you are naturals at bringing women to orgasm. And bravo to you, sirs. Some of you, maybe not so much. Or maybe you’re a skilled lover, and like all serious students of the connubial arts you’re always looking for one more move, one more quiver in your sexual bow. We’re here to help.


MISSIONARY CHEST TO CHIN

This move starts off in missionary and grows more intense as the man thrusts and lines up the shaft of his penis with the root of the woman’s clitoris. To make sure it’s done right, the man’s chest should be level with the woman’s chin.

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“For added intensity, a man can do a circular motion with his pelvis, moving his penis around in a downward and side-to-side motion,” says Dr. Lisa Masterson, an obstetrician and gynecologist based in Santa Monica, Calif., who was cohost on the medical talk show The Doctors for five seasons. “Just be aware of her ability to breathe and don’t zone out and forget about her.”

THE BRIDGE (KAMA SUTRA)

Earlier this year, a delightfully provocative report emerged declaring Brooklyn, New York the loudest borough for lovemaking based on complaint calls to 311. Brooklyn: It’s for lovers.

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In honor of these expressive men and women, we present The Bridge. (Get it? Like the Brooklyn Bridge? OK, we’ll stick to sex advice.)

For this move, the woman is on top, and the man is on the bottom. But here’s where things get tricky. The man has to arch his back and position his arms up and past his head and his legs down so that his hands and feet are planted on the floor or bed.

In other words, his body should take on an arch shape. The woman completes the move by mounting him for penetration, and the man enhances her pleasure with slow and deliberate thrusts. Go, Brooklyn!

WARNING: No man, even if you’re in great shape, should hold The Bridge position for too long. For added support, consider an exercise ball.

REVERSE COWGIRL

For this position, the woman straddles the man with her back to him, and the man lies on his back.

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“Reverse cowgirl is the sex position that gives as good as it gets,” says Emily Morse, a sex therapist, expert and radio host based in San Francisco. “Men love it mostly for the view, but it can also be a very pleasurable position for her. It puts her in charge of speed and depth of penetration, plus it provides easy access to the clitoris, which roughly 70 percent of women need to have stimulated to achieve orgasm.”

Adds Morse, “Once she is in position, let her find an angle and a rhythm that work for her and encourage her to ride em’ cowgirl, all the way to climax.”

GIRLS ON TOP

This is a beneficial position for many reasons. It increases intimacy because the woman and man can stare into each other’s eyes. The man’s penis, meanwhile, is also wonderfully aligned with the woman’s clitoris.

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For added passion and variety, both the man and the woman can reposition their legs. For instance, the man can lie on his back with his legs straight or sit up with his legs folded crisscross applesauce style.

The woman can move her legs up so that she’s in a seated position where her ankles are near his ears as he lies flat. She also can straddle his waist and hug him with her legs or do a quasi-squat so that her knees are planted and downward-facing. All of these moves are perfect for controlling pace and penetration.

DOGGY-STYLE

A classic move that never goes out of fashion, doggy-style allows a man and woman to get on all fours while the man penetrates from behind.

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“Doggy-style is so effective because it offers the deepest penetration possible and can reach the G-spot,” Morse says.

But the move has its limitations.

“Sometimes the classic position of kneeling on all fours can add stress to her body, adding increased pressure to the knees, back and neck,” Morse said. Help avoid pain and increase pleasure by having her stand up, lean forward against a wall or bend over a table. She can use her arms to brace herself in a more stable position, yet still allow those incredibly deep thrusts.

If you still want to keep it on all fours, put a pillow or blanket under her knees so she has a comfortable foundation. You can vary things by having her lie flat on the bed with pillows under her waist. This way there’s still an incline through which to enter her from behind. If she still needs extra clitoral stimulation, you can always use your fingers or a vibrator to massage her clitoris.

This can often be the sure thing for many women to experience an explosive climax.

PINBALL

The pinball – or hip-hugger as some call it – allows the woman to anchor her shoulders and upper back while the man manipulates her legs and hips during pelvic thrusts like, you guessed it, a pinball machine.

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“Women who take Pilates or yoga will feel right at home in this position, as it starts with her weight resting on her shoulders and her back arched up,” Morse says. “He enters from a kneeling position and holds her thighs for extra support. This position has great orgasm potential because he can more easily stimulate her clitoris and massage her pubic bone (or mons pubis - the tissue that covers her pubic bone).

“Extra points and extra stimulation for throwing her leg over his shoulder for deeper next level penetration,” Morse says.

VIP SEATING

An armless dining chair or even a cushioned Parsons chair can be used as a simple and mutually beneficial prop because the woman is on top and can use the back of the chair for leverage during controlled and deeply satisfying grinding.

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“When it comes to her pleasure, the chair move really has it all and doesn’t require a whole lot of effort for either party,” Morse said. “For starters, it provides some serious hands-free clitoral stimulation, thanks to the perfect alignment of her clitoris against the base of the penis and pubic bone.

“This is also a great position for hitting her G-spot. Using a grinding versus a thrusting motion, this position can sometimes even result in a simultaneous orgasm, which is essentially the Holy Grail for women.”

LOVING SPOONFUL

Spooning is like the tender cousin of doggy style. The man enters from behind, and it’s also like he’s giving his lady a body hug. It’s cuddling with benefits.

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“Spooning can feel pretty intimate, with your full bodies pressed against each other,” Morse says. “Also, when she is on her side with her legs closed, it makes everything feel tighter down there and creates more friction, which provides more pleasure for both the man and woman.”

MAGIC MOUNTAIN

Another Kama Sutra move, the Magic Mountain is a hybrid between doggy-style and spooning.

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To make this work, stack at least three firm pillows for the woman to lean on. That’s when the man kneels behind her and penetrates with his legs on the outside of hers.

For an extra steamy experience, Masterson recommends leaving the woman’s panties on and sliding them to the side for entry while applying soft pressure to her clitoris with the fingers.

PILLOW TALK

Just remember, as awesome as the clitoris is, the most important sexual organ is a woman’s brain. Men should whisper sexy noises and words in the woman’s ear to turn her on before and during sex. “Women are complex,” Masterson says. “And most of the pregame that starts in the head is the key.”

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