It certainly takes a lot of time and effort to make a relationship work, but at certain times, you just aren’t good at it at all. That isn’t to say you’ll always be this way, but for now, you need to give it a rest. If you’re unsure where you fall on the spectrum, here’s a handy guide to see if you’re relationship material—or if you’d be better off spending a little quality time with yourself.


1. YOU CONSTANTLY LOOK AT EVERY OTHER GUY AS A THREAT


2. YOU’RE ONLY WILLING TO DO THE THINGS YOU WANT TO DO

3. YOU DON’T COMMUNICATE

4. YOU STILL TALK ABOUT YOUR EX

5. YOU’RE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR SOMETHING TO ARGUE ABOUT

6. YOU’RE UNFAITHFUL

7. YOU BASE YOUR DECISIONS ON TEMPORARY EMOTIONS

8. YOU’RE SELF-CENTERED

9. YOU’RE TERRIFIED OF COMMITMENT

10. YOU CHANGE WHO YOU ARE TO MAKE THE OTHER PERSON HAPPY