The Hookup: Get Your Sexercise

Coed of the Week

Name: Mya Matthews

School: Clemson University

Major: Animal and Veterinary Sciences

Does Clemson have hotter girls or guys?  
Clemson is well-known for its beautiful women, whom I am happy to represent in Playboy. The men could maybe use a little work on their fashion sense though. Some wear camo far too often. Others style their hair the same way my dad did back when he was in college. Sorry guys!

What's the dating scene like?  
We’re still in the Bible Belt, so I’d say there are plenty of traditional official relationships as well as casual hookups.

What's the wildest thing you've seen happen on campus?  
I had a friend who lived on one of the upper floors of his apartment building. Very late one night, he took some really huge speakers he had and placed them face down on the floor. He began to play porn at top volume through the speakers! We got a good laugh out of the people getting woken up below us to porn blasting through their ceilings.

If a guy on campus wanted to date you, how should he approach you?  
He just needs to be interesting, fun and confident enough to come up and say hi! I won’t bite...hard. [laughs]

Today's Lesson: Sexercise

I'm a college student who does some personal training on the side. One of my new clients is a gorgeous 37-year-old secretary. For our first session at her house, she wore a skintight outfit that forced me to untuck my T-shirt to cover my woody. We stretched and did a half hour of aerobics. Then she asked for a rubdown. As I rubbed her back she moaned and told me how good it felt. The next thing I knew she was pulling down her top and asking me to massage her breasts. (I'm sure I had the look of a teenager seeing breasts for the first time.) I did what she asked, and then she kissed me and pulled me on top of her. It was the most passionate, spontaneous and exhilarating sex I've ever had. Before I left, she handed me a check for the workout and we scheduled another. While getting paid for great sex seems wonderful, I also feel cheap. I don't know what to say to her. What should I do?—P.T., Nashville, Tennessee

We don't see any problem with accepting payment for your services, as long as your client gets what she pays for—a complete workout. That should not include the aerobic benefits of sex, however, since it's a bonus for both of you. If she'd like you to continue as her paid exercise coach, make it clear that you'll do what good trainers do—push her to complete her routine on a regular schedule. If you find that you can't do that without drifting into sex, it's time for her to get a new trainer and just invite you over for the afterburn. We'd suggest you find out what this woman expects from the relationship, if that's what you see developing. There's obviously a mutual attraction, so why not suggest a meal before your next workout? You could show her the proper foods to eat to maintain her weight, stow away calories to burn off later and gauge whether she's someone you would enjoy spending more time with. If you feel uncomfortable taking her money, don't. Just consider your workouts as foreplay.

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