Sandra Kubicka. Cody McGibbon.

Sandra Kubicka. Cody McGibbon.

Cover Model

Sandra Kubicka Lookin’ Killer In The Midday Sun

Sandra Kubicka. Cody McGibbon.

Sandra Kubicka. Cody McGibbon.

When photographer Cody McGibbon aimed his lens at cover model Sandra Kubicka, the sun decided to play along. Together the three of them created this incredibly sexy photoshoot that features Sandra chillin’ poolside in a pair of cutoffs, just being sexy as she wants to be. Like, dayum.

Sandra Kubicka. Cody McGibbon.

Sandra Kubicka. Cody McGibbon.

One fine way to sweeten your day: go check this gallery of Sandra looking killer in the midday sun. The pics will alleviate your stress and start your weekend right.

Sandra Kubicka. Cody McGibbon.

Sandra Kubicka. Cody McGibbon.

Hiring A Pro

Paying For Sex: Should You, or Nah?

Have you ever benefitted from the services of a sex worker? Have you ever considered it? And if not, what’s stopping you? Writer and former escort Andrea Werhun strongly recommends you satisfy yourself with the services of a professional in her article, Should You Pay For Sex At Least Once Before You Die?

If you already enjoy the occasional, daily or breakfast-lunch-and-dinner viewing of pornography, consider this: you already rely on the labor of sex workers to meet your sexual, mental and emotional needs. The only difference between watching porn and paying for sex is human connection—and in this day and age, connecting with a real life human is a hot commodity.

Of course, some people still think of sex work as unethical. As Werhun points out:

That’s the stigma talking, baby. You see, as it often happens when sex workers speak for themselves—not as disempowered victims but as people who value their work—our opinions are misconstrued as exceptions to the rule. This so-called “rule” is actually prejudice serving to further disempower sex workers by ignoring their lived experiences.

Thankfully, that stigma is changing, and changing fast. These days, organizations like Amnesty International advocate for prostitution to be legalized. Their argument is simple: by keeping prostitution illegal, nations endanger sex workers. It’s a simple human rights issue.

If you think about it, it’s pretty damn ridiculous that if you pay a person for sex, it’s illegal. But if you pay a person for sex and film it, suddenly it’s a perfectly legit business. Here’s a radical idea: how about we protect the people who provide orgasms for a living, instead of turning cameras into magical bestowers of legal protections?

Science Says…

Stealthing Isn’t Only Way Guys Avoid Using Condoms; And Is A Circumcised Penis Truly Healthier?

Recently, we told you about stealthing, the new trend where guys slip off their condom halfway through sex, which has rightly been decried as a form of sexual assault. Why? It denies consent to one’s partner. This week, one of our resident sexologists, Justin Lehmiller details the other ways besides stealthing that guys avoid using condoms.

In a 2014 study from the Journal of Sex Research, 300 men between the ages of 21-30 were given a list of ten condom avoidance tactics and asked which, if any, they’d tried. The results were rather staggering. As Lehmiller reports, “One quarter of the guys admitted to having flat-out lied in order to not wear a condom, saying they’d been tested for STDs where that wasn’t the case.” All in all, 80 percent of the men in the study had tried at least one of the ten tactics on the list.

One excuse a lot of men tell themselves and their partners about why they don’t need to use a condom is that they’re circumcised and thus they’re safe from STIs/STDs, like HIV. While it is true that studies have shown circumcised heterosexual men have a lower rate of HIV infection, this is not a safe sexual practice. Lehmiller explains this in an article that asks: Is a Circumcised Penis Really Any Healthier?

National Masturbation Month

Who Fantasizes More About Hooking Up With An Ex …Men or Women?

In case you hadn’t heard, May is National Masturbation Month. Yes, that’s a real thing. Which raises an interesting question: What do women fantasize about when they masturbate?

In a study from sex toy, lingerie and erotic gift shop Lovehoney, respondents reported that, regardless of gender, people most often fantasize about their current partner. However, nearly half of women reported they also fantasize about sex with their ex. Before you jump to any conclusions, men were more likely to fantasize about sex with an ex, with men coming in at 58 percent, while only 48 percent of women did. Check it here for more details of what sex dreams play out in the minds of women and men.

And since it’s National Masturbation Month, here’s Anabelle Knight, a sexpert from Lovehoney with advice for how men can better enjoy a good wank.

Adult Film Roundup

Dan Savage’s Amateur Porn Festival; and Do Porn Stars Ever Have Sex With Their Fans?

Here are two rather fascinating stories of amateur porn.

First up, we have Dan Savage’s Hump! festival. Started twelve years ago with an ad in an alternative paper in Seattle, the amateur porn festival has grown into a powerful beacon for the kinky and a highly-anticipated celebration for all sorts of sex-positive people. It’s also become a resource for organizing and advocacy.

Second, we have another tale of amateurs and porn; only in this case it’s amateurs and porn stars. Asked if they’ve ever had sex with a fan, these porn stars’ confessions are def worth checking. Obviously, the answer is yes. But what happens when fantasy meets reality, and both are naked?

This Week In WTF?!

Wait, You Put What…Where?

Week in and week out, there are news stories about adults having sex, and they’ll invariably leave you scratching your head wondering, ”Who TF does that?“ This week, we have some real Darwin Prize winners.

We always recommend you get a little kinky from time to time. Be sure to step off the beaten path and find your way into unexplored sexual realms. However, to be clear, that doesn’t mean we’re suggesting anyone go to a McDonald’s restaurant and get a blow job in the dining room, like this dude did.

That story is ridiculous. This one is downright distressing. A Florida man was charged with murdering his girlfriend. But he swears he didn’t intentionally kill her. He says that she choked to death…on his dick. Yes. That’s his actual defense. One thing is clear: Florida has no chill.

Last up, we have another tale of public sex. At a restaurant called Senor Pollo de Kent, located somewhere in Kent, Washington, a young couple was having sex in the parking lot, in clear view of the restaurant’s patrons. Upset they couldn’t enjoy their chicken, a pair of 911 calls were made. Police arrived to find the woman fellating the young man, and then, subsequently, they observed her bend over and the couple started to have sex in broad daylight. Officers arrested the man, but the woman attempted to escape on a public bus. When she was later apprehended, she exposed herself to one patrolman, and then removed a dandelion from her vagina. Just gonna leave you with that mental image. Sorry, not sorry.


Melinda London. Emanuele Ferrari.

Melinda London. Emanuele Ferrari.

Alright, you know what time it is. Let the stress of the week melt away as you get your mind right for the weekend with this pictorial of smoky-eyed stunner Melinda London. She and photographer Emanuele Ferrari kept it all the way sultry with this photoshoot. They kept a tight grip on the sexy and never let go. Enjoy!

Melinda London. Emanuele Ferrari.

Melinda London. Emanuele Ferrari.