Up in Smoke: Your Best Sex Ever

By Vanessa Butler

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When you fantasize about your ideal sex life, what do you see? An unachievable roster of celebrities and models available to you at the snap of your fingers? A woman who is willing to try anything and everything in the bedroom? Or are you a man of many needs and would prefer your sex life to change with each day? Whatever your personal sexual fantasy may be, one thing is for sure: women go wild for partners they trust.

A recent survey conducted by condom company Durex revealed that a whopping 87 percent of women experienced their “hottest sex” with a partner they trusted and had a prior relationship with. That means no one-night stands, no casual encounter hookups and most likely no sloppy first date sex sessions.

The kicker? Men agree with this claim too: 95 percent of the men polled agreed that when it comes to a good sex session, trust and an emotional connection make the experience way more satisfying. It seems that this works out because those who are in relationships tend to spend more time satisfying the needs of their partner in bed, focusing more on their partner than themselves, whereas one-night stands are all about fulfilling your own personal urges.

This all makes sense to us, but that’s because we’ve been following our editor in chief’s relationship advice to a T. As Hef said in a recent interview with Esquire, “There were chunks of my life when I was married, and when I was married I never cheated. But I made up for it when I wasn’t married. You have to keep your hand in.” Wise words from a wise man.


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