“Why did you cheat on me so many times?”

That’s the brutal question that kicks off a difficult exchange between Ali and Andrew, a real-life couple who broke up two years ago after seven years together. It’s part of interactive documentary series The And–and watching it will leave you feeling equal parts awkward and enlightened.

You can view the first part of their question-and-answer session here:

And part two, which ends on a touching note: