It can be difficult to read the signs and know when someone is flirting with you or when they’re just being polite. The last thing you want to do is misinterpret it and pursue someone who isn’t interested. A Reddit thread asked women the best ways to tell when she’s flirting with you and when she’s just being nice. This could save you quite a bit of frustration down the road or just confuse you even more. You’re welcome!

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