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Playboy.com: You've been on the road constantly since Sex, Love and Rock 'n' Roll was released in 2004. Why tour as a solo artist now?

Mike Ness: I was supposed to be taking a break for physical, mental and spiritual necessity. It's funny, because every interview I've done in the last year, journalists would ask me about [a solo tour]. I would go, "I would like to go do that, but we've just been so busy with Social D." I just felt it was the perfect opportunity to get out and let people know that it was still in my mind.

Playboy.com: Just how troubled were you as a kid?

Ness: The way I look at it, there's always someone worse off. It certainly wasn't the worst of situations, but it was rough. My parents were alcoholics. As I understand it, they drank until I was five, and then they got sobered up and it was an unhappy marriage. My father was not a very patient man with a temper. They divorced when I was about 12 and it was very painful. My mom had custody of us and she started drinking and we all had to go to a foster house for a little while. And then my father took custody and he had a new girlfriend and she was a psycho. I left when I was 15 and it was probably the best thing.

Playboy.com: Where did you go?

Ness: I basically had to go live with friends and family. I had no money. I ended up in this home with a family of six who had money. It was out of control -- the kids basically ran the household. The parents were in the middle of a divorce, but they were kind enough to take me in. I lived with them for a couple of years.

Playboy.com: Did you drop out of high school when you moved out?

Ness: No, I managed to stick around until my senior year. I finally dropped out 'cause school was in the way of my nightlife. I had a band to start. Looking back, I don't have a lot of regrets in my life, but that's one of them. Sometimes I just feel so stupid. You know, my kids are in school and they're learning about history and I never learned it. I'm like, "What period is this?" They're like, "Dad, the Greek/Roman period."

Playboy.com: There's a story about your early days that has almost become a rock urban legend -- that you went into a rage with a knife and almost sliced your index finger off. What happened?

Ness: Yeah, I thought I was Sid Vicious. [Laughs] Looking back, it was a cry for help, like these kids today they call "cutters." I guess I was that. I was slashing my arms and face and chest. I would cut myself and go to school the next day. All of a sudden the jocks who were picking on me stopped. They said, "This kid's fuckin' crazy, stay away from him." [Laughs] But what really happened that one time, I was stabbing the wall for some reason with a really long steak knife and my hand slipped and it almost cut my left index finger off. I had to go to emergency 'cause it wouldn't stop bleeding. They did reconstructive surgery over night and in the morning took me to the psychiatric ward. I was 18, and that was the first time that I felt that my future could be in someone else's hands -- the judicial system or the psychiatric system. It felt serious and I didn't want to spend my life in either.

Playboy.com: How long were you in the psych ward?

Ness: Almost three days. They put you in for a 72-hour evaluation. My mom got me out of that, and I don't know how, because a lady at the place told me, "You need to be here; I think that you pose a serious risk to yourself and others."

Playboy.com: How much did drugs and alcohol play into all this?

Ness: Heavily. I was a full-blown alcoholic by the time I was 17, getting in fights all the time. It was like I had held it all in until I was 17. I was going from a boy to a man, I guess. I was roaming the streets as a punk rocker and society's reaction was very volatile. But I couldn't be passive any more.

Playboy.com: How many times were you arrested?

Ness: I was lucky. I was in Orange County Jail a lot, but I didn't get any long terms. I was in the San Diego County felony tank for a week because I assaulted a bouncer. I almost went to prison, but I didn't do jail well. I didn't enjoy it like some of the other guys did. [Laughs] When I talk about it on stage, I say, "I had things to do and people to see. I didn't have time to be doing time." Being a convict was not something that I wanted to pursue. When I introduce the song "Prison Bound," I often say that a judge one day had a little faith in me and thought I'd do better up on stage with a guitar in my hands than in the yard walking around with my chest up.

Mike Ness

"The jocks who were picking on me stopped. They said,
'This kid's fuckin' crazy, stay away from him.'"

 

Photo: Walter Urie