“You have to give guys that sexy look that makes it seem okay for them to approach you,” says Erin. And once you approach her, don’t take your eyes off of her. “Please pay attention to the subtle hints I give you,” she says. “Do not treat me a like a china doll—I won’t break.” A “die-hard” Dave Matthews Band fan, “Crash” is Erin’s go-to single when she wants to establish a sexy mood. “Put that on and I am putty in your hands.”