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The Playboy Advisor: Stimulated Nipples
  • January 11, 2012 : 20:01
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Q. My nipples are one of my major erogenous zones, second only to my clitoris. I can almost climax from stimulation of my nipples alone. The problem is, my nipples are rather insensitive to light or normal touch. I like to attach clips to my nipples or twist them hard, burn them lightly with candle wax or rough them up with sandpaper. I found that if I do this prior to sex with my husband, my nipples are so sensitive I can feel every touch and suck. The next day they're still so sensitive I can hardly keep my hands off myself, and frankly, I do not try. Am I doing permanent damage to myself?
-- K. C., Portland, Maine

A. Years ago we got a letter from a guy who masturbated with sandpaper. He asked if he had a problem. We said "Yes, but not for long." Apparently, he consulted a sex therapist who cured him of the habit by switching to lighter grades of sandpaper, velvet, then a woman. He still gets a hard-on every time he passes Ace Hardware, and he spends an inordinate amount of time watching "Home Improvement." You are abusing your body, but so does every person who runs a marathon, mounts a StairMaster or plays tennis. Are sexual injuries the same as athletic injuries? It's your call. Doctors would probably tell you that sex is like medicine: Above all, do no harm. All you've done is found a dramatic way to amplify the signals going to the brain.

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3 comments

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    Omg, Mine too! My nipples are always hard. It is definitely an attention getter with guys.
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