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Advisor: I Go Soft When She's Not Touching Me

Advisor: I Go Soft When She’s Not Touching Me

I have a problem that has bothered me for several years–as long as I have had sex, actually, since I’m only 23. The problem is that I have a difficult time obtaining an erection without a minute or so of manual or oral stimulation. This has happened on many occasions and has embarrassed me quite a bit. I assume from the response of the girl I’m about to have sex with that when she reaches for me, I should already be hard. But usually, at the time she reaches for my penis, it is only semi-erect, and she asks what is wrong. As far as I’m concerned, nothing is wrong, because that is the way I always start out. But the fact that women ask has made me paranoid that something is really wrong, even though I don’t go to bed with a girl unless she really turns me on. Another problem: When I have become erect and I decide to prolong the encounter by stimulating my partner either manually or orally, my erection subsides once again to a semi-erect condition. I like to go directly…

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