THE GENTLE SIDE OF ROUGH SEX

I love it when my man pulls my hair while we're having sex. Some guys pull hair from the ends and not from the roots, but you can pull a woman's hair out that way. I love being bitten softly on the back of the neck. Don't bite a woman on the front of her neck -- only the back, the nape and the shoulders. I love to sink my teeth into my man as well. And I love when my man looks at me and says, "I know you were bad today" and then gives me a little spank.

WORDS TO LIVE BY

Remember it's not just about the nipples. Kiss around the nipples and underneath the breasts. A man should ask his woman how she likes to be pleasured orally. If she's shy about telling you, then try different things. Really pay attention to her moans. Does she like this better or does she like that? Don't forget about the inner elbow and the back of the knee. If you kiss those areas, your woman will go insane. She'll tell her friends you're the best lover in the world. She'll be so wet that she'll want you inside her immediately. But make her wait. Tell her, "I just want to ravish your body first. You're so beautiful." Say that and you're golden.