By Mike James

R&B singer-actor Ray J doesn't bite his tongue when it comes to sexing the ladies. He's making the title of his first single, "Sexy Can I," the new catchphrase for getting some ass, politely asking girls, "Can I hit it from the back?"

The 27-year-old brother of R&B singer-actress Brandy has drawn attention to his own hot singing career. "Sexy Can I," off his new album, All I Feel, climbed as high as number three on Billboard's Hot 100 singles chart. Ray J's also building quite a reputation as a smooth ladies man. His rumored sexual conquests include rapper Lil' Kim (they're just friends, he says) and singer Whitney Houston.

But it was his porn-star techniques displayed in the infamous video with reality star, Playboy cover girl and former girlfriend Kim Kardashian -- getting it on in Cabo, Mexico -- that had the whole world watching. Ray J talked to Playboy.com about the sex tape, the raunchiest track on his new album and getting over his big sexual mood-killer.

1. How old were you when you lost your virginity?

Ray J: I had a weird first time incident when I was young. But the real first time [having sex] was at 13 and it was with a girl I liked and I did it at my homeboy's house in the daytime. My performance at 13 was when I knew I had something going on. I knew there was something special about me and I knew I could perform in the future well. It was off da chain. We both wanted to do it and afterwards I felt that the world had done change.

2. Are you good in bed?

Ray J: I think I am great in bed and the reason why is because I try to satisfy the girl first and make sure she has had enough before I am done. I want to make sure I give everything she needs to get relax and have a relax time. Every shot I make count -- pow!

3. Describe your most memorable sexual experience.

Ray J: The memorable sexual experience that keeps popping up in my memory is the time with my ex-girlfriend [Kim Kardashian] in Cabo, Mexico. It was memorable because I put it on my video camera and the whole world is looking at it. I just can't get it outta my head. I don't think nobody else can either. It was just a fun time together. We were young, we were both 21 and we just had a good time as couples and just wilding out. We just got down with massages, getting drunk and getting down in the Jacuzzi bath.

4. What celebrity would you most like to have sex with?

Ray J: Nicole Scherzinger. I just got a crush on Nicole from the Pussycat Dolls. I just love the way she looks, the way she moves and I love the title of her group. Pusssssy-Cat Dolls. [Laughs]

5. Are you a member of the mile high club?

Ray J: For sure, but it was on a private jet. I was with my girl. The captain closed the curtains and it was just going down. I might have once gotten some head on a commercial plane. She was lying on my lap and I had the jacket over her. You probably could have sex on a commercial flight if it was very empty on the flight. I don't think you could have sex if someone was sitting right in front of you or behind you or the side. I think you're gonna go to jail! It might work in that small-ass bathroom. If you gotta get it in, you gotta get it in.

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