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Don't tip singles:
No surprise -- money matters. At a place like Scores, $50 or $100 tips are not unusual. "Do spend a lot of money, if you want the girl to sit with you," says Nancy, laughing. "Her time is valuable, so don't let her sit there and not give her anything." And don't dangle the money in front of the girl like a carrot in front of a donkey. "That would probably be the first thing that would annoy a girl," Nancy says.
Do treat the women like more than sex objects:
Most guys can't wait to see a dancer start to disrobe. If you show an interest in something besides T&A, you set yourself apart from the crowd. "Once a guy paid me just to sit down with my dress on, not even to dance, just to converse," Nancy says.
Don't dance for the girls:
Leave the lap dancing to the professional. "Guys will offer to pay me to dance for me," says Scores girl Kailey Wyland. "They'll say, 'I'll give you forty bucks.' I'll be like, 'No, you can't dance for me.' They'll start taking off their shirt. That's a turn-off." [Laughs]
Do be low-key:
"Girls look for a guy that's down to earth," says Nancy. "A guy might just ask them to have dinner at the restaurant [in Scores] instead of sitting there getting dances. Sometimes the guy will pay the girl to have dinner." At Scores, you'll probably be charged $400 an hour for a dancer's time, so enjoy that surf 'n' turf!
Don't be cheap:
"Guys will say, 'No, I don't want to dance, but can I have your phone number?'" says Jackson, laughing. "That definitely doesn't work." Remember, these girls are paying their bills by dancing -- so get a dance! But don't assume that $20 buys you her digits. "There are guys that come in to sit with me and I get $3000, and they don't even want your phone number at the end of the night," she adds. You'll still need to put on the charm.
Do be confident:
"One of my friends met a guy there, and in three months got married to him," Nancy says. "He was a model, but he was also very confident in the way he kinda took over and said, 'I'm good for you.' The girls at Scores make a lot of money and are all attractive, so you gotta be pretty confident."
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