The Playboy Advisor

April, 1988

I never thought it would happen to me, but after an exciting six-year courtship, including a ten-month engagement, my fiancée says she's not ready to get married. She wants to postpone our wedding one year. The reason she gives is the two-month love affair I had during our only breakup, and that was two years ago. She is still haunted by that and fears that it might happen again. I wonder if time will heal her wound, and should I commit another year to finding out?--D. M., Fort Lauderdale, Flori...