The Playboy Advisor

August, 1992

Several months ago, without warning, my girlfriend broke up with me. I thought we had a great relationship, and I'm taking this breakup a lot harder than previous partings. I'm trying to let go, but I can't seem to do it. How can I mend this broken heart?--V. J., Sacramento, California.First, when you find yourself thinking about your ex, focus on what you disliked about her, as in: At least I don't have to deal with that anymore. Second, find a buddy of either sex and have some fun--even if you...