The Playboy Advisor

September, 1997

My girlfriend and I have been together a little over a year. We are both sophomores in college. Being sort of old-fashioned, I don't believe in premarital sex. For the past three months, she has been trying to push me into it. Last week I overheard her talking with a friend and got the impression she may start looking elsewhere for sexual fulfillment. I don't want to lose her, but I don't want to compromise my values, either. What should I do?--N.S., Indianapolis, IndianaBefore your girlfriend l...