The Playboy Advisor

January, 2002

My girlfriend and I have been going out for nine months. We have sex four or five times a week, which to me is similar to Social Security--you can live on it, but barely. Whenever she goes down on me, it's usually only after I ask her to, which ruins the anticipation. I feel a little guilty asking her to do something that she doesn't seem to enjoy. One night she began stroking me. I wanted her to make the first move, so I laid back and made it clear I was enjoying myself. She kept stroking me wi...