The Playboy Advisor

February, 2003

Recently my boyfriend informed me that he sees women all the time who he wants to have sex with. That made me feel insecure and paranoid. It's not that I don't fantasize about other guys, but I keep my thoughts private and I don't harbor the images for longer than that person is in my sight. I asked my boyfriend how often these fantasies happen; he said he couldn't say. When do these thoughts become too much for a relationship to bear? And is it normal to envision others when you are being intim...