Playboy Advisor

September, 2012

I thought my girlfriend was too fat when we met, but her per­sonality and kindness helped me overlook her weight. She's great, but after nine months together it has become a chore to have sex with her. I have to smoke mari­juana to get aroused. She tries to work out and eat more healthily but then gives up. I've considered ending the relationship. Is there a way to stop wanting a more attractive woman and settle for one who's pretty on the inside? I feel selfish and shallow.—J.B., Detroit, Michi...