The Playboy Advisor

November, 1979

My girlfriend and I are having an argument. She wants to know what turns me on, so that she can contribute more to my pleasure. I frankly am at something of a loss for words. I like to be active--the idea that I should just lie there passively while she does something to me is disconcerting. I have ended the discussion by quoting The Playboy Advisor--to the effect that every person is responsible for his own orgasm. She wants to know what the hell you mean by that.--D. H., Chicago, Illinois.Ever...