The Playboy Advisor

March, 1980

I've been dating a girl for several months. We finally got around to talking about what went on in our heads during sex, what we liked, and so forth. I mentioned that I sometimes fantasized during intercourse. She asked me if I had had erotic daydreams the first time we made love. I said yes, which was a mistake. She grants that fantasies are normal but thinks I must be pretty weird to drift off in the middle of a completely novel encounter, when I should be totally absorbed in my new partner. A...