The Playboy Advisor

September, 1980

Please help me. Through some very dear friends, I recently met a man whom I find witty, articulate, charming and comfortable to be around, as well as a sensitive and remarkably compatible lover. However, he lives in Chicago and I live in New York. Although we both have careers in our respective cities, neither of us can afford to commute regularly. Can you offer any suggestions on keeping the flame burning?--Miss M. C., New York, New York.You should do the same thing you'd do if someone local ha...