The Playboy Advisor

April, 1981

I found myself in an unusual situation a few weeks ago. A female friend from high school paid a visit to my college. Before the night was over, she tried to initiate a sexual encounter. Since I am deeply involved in another relationship, I was not too interested. However, since I didn't know how to refuse, I said what the hell and tried to go through with it. The evening was a disaster. How does a guy say no without hurting a woman's feelings?--R. X., Dallas, Texas.We can understand your confusi...