The Playboy Advisor

August, 1981

I am a relatively well-adjusted professional, three years out of an unsatisfactory marriage. For two years after my marital split, I foundered in the singles' world, primarily trying to recapture my self-respect. A little over a year ago, I met the most delightful woman, a librarian, but the antithesis of the TV stereotype. It did not take long for me to become comfortable in a monogamous relationship to which we both have adhered for nearly a year. Our first few sexual adventures were mind-blas...