The Playboy Advisor

October, 1982

I'm a 20-year-old woman. I don't want to suggest that I have a dirty mind, but I fantasy like crazy when I masturbate. On occasion, I will drift off while making love to a real person. I've read Nancy Friday and The Hite Report. Those books tell you that women have fantasies and that there's no such thing as weird or normal. But I wonder. Is there such a thing as too much fantasy? Shouldn't I be able to get off on the real thing? What effect does my fantasy life have on my love life?--Miss T. S....