The Playboy Advisor

April, 1984

I've been dating a woman for about a month and a half now, and our sex life is very strong, except that she will not allow herself to have an orgasm, at least not with a man. I gave her a vibrator and she reaches orgasm very quickly with it (in the privacy of her home), and she has had orgasms with men before. So the problem is apparently not physiological.Several times, I've almost gotten her off by going down on her, but she stops me. Her only explanation is that she's afraid of being "ea...