Dear Playmates

May, 1985

The question for the month:How do you handle a disappointing sexual encounter with a man you care about?First of all, let me define disappointing: a man who basically wants his sex the same way every time and then goes right to sleep. That's a definite downer. So first I take two aspirins. What I really do is talk about it. I try to find out what's going on with him. I try to discuss what is and is not arousing to me. I think you need to encourage a lot of variety. Make love in different places,...