The Playboy Advisor

April, 1986

I've been seeing a girl steadily for the past two and a half years. We are the best of friends and love each other very much, but we come from opposite ends of the sexual spectrum. I am sexually liberal and have in the past enjoyed a good deal of sexual activity. My girlfriend, however, is still a virgin and is extremely insecure and backward regarding sex.During our first year together, I helped her become relaxed and open toward sex, to a point. We did a lot of touching, feeling and kissing, b...