The Playboy Advisor

June, 1986

I have a problem that has bothered me for several years---as long as I have had sex, actually, since I'm only 23. The problem is that I have a difficult time obtaining an erection without a minute or so of manual or oral stimulation. This has happened on many occasions and has embarrassed me quite a bit. I assume from the response of the girl I'm about to have sex with that when she reaches for me, I should already be hard. But usually, at the time she reaches for my penis, it is only semi-erect...