The Playboy Advisor

July, 1986

My wife and I have been happily married for more than 15 years. We have had what I thought was a mutually satisfying sexual relationship. Recently, however, my wife has not been able to have satisfying orgasms without the use of such exotic paraphernalia as whips, chains and vibrating mechanical devices. I feel embarrassed to participate in her sexual fantasies, due to my conservative small-town upbringing. My question is this: Should I do whatever is necessary to please my wife, regardless of m...