Dear Playmates

September, 1988

The question for the month:How important is getting and giving affection after sex?Well, it depends on the situation. Sometimes you have sex and sometimes you make love. Neither is better and both happen in a relationship. If you're having sex, it's just sex. If you're making love, it's very important to feel close to the other person afterward. What kind of affection? Anything from cuddling to watching TV to breakfast in bed to hanging out together. It doesn't have to take a specific form. I do...

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