Dear Playmates

December, 1988

The question for the month:If a man is interested in you but you're not interested in him, do you tell him or let him down with little white lies?When the guy is being harmless about it, I'll say, "Listen, I'm involved with someone. Let's be friends." If he's annoying me, I'll tell him to get lost. Do I really want to be friends? Sure, if I like him but just don't feel sexually attracted to him. Then I'll say, "I'm not interested in getting involved." It really depends on the...