The Playboy Advisor

December, 1988

[Q] When I'm at a bar, I find it quite hard to meet and talk to girls. I am tall, dark and reasonably good-looking. It's not that girls never look at or talk to me, it's just that it seems that this is as far as it ever goes. I'll buy a girl a drink or dance with her, but that is it. My friend tells me I must be much more aggressive. This is probably the problem, but how do I know what is too aggressive--without getting slapped? Thanks.--K. S., Edmonton, Alberta.[A] Biologist Timothy Perper spen...