Dear Playmates

March, 1989

The question for the month:When you are in a relationship, under what conditions is it all right to sleep with someone else?I think it would have to depend on the circumstances. I think it is very hard to expect one person to satisfy all of your needs, especially if you are changing and growing all the time, as I hope I am. Sleeping with someone else isn't good for your relationship and is a sign that you should take a closer look at why you're with him and why you let this other sexual thing ha...