The Playboy Advisor

February, 1990

When my boyfriend and I started having sex, he had no problem bringing me to orgasm when he was on top. Then, as a change of pace, I rode him once and found that my orgasms were a lot more intense and satisfying. The problem is, now my boyfriend hasn't been able to bring me to orgasm except when I'm on top. We've tried everything--extended foreplay, oral stimulation, other positions. He says it doesn't matter to him that much, but it's frustrating for me and making sex less enjoyable. Any sugges...