The Playboy Advisor

September, 1991

When my girlfriend and I make love, my thoughts often drift to other women I've bedded over the years, especially a girl with whom I had a brief but very torrid summer romance when we were both camp counselors in college ten years ago. I love my girlfriend--at least I think I do--but these intense flashbacks are getting out of hand and are starting to interfere with sex. Am I messed up or what?--J. R., Reston, Virginia.Not at all. Recently, researchers at the University of Vermont surveyed 178 s...