The Playboy Advisor

January, 1993

Every day I see attractive women who arouse me sexually. My girlfriend knows and doesn't mind, saying, "I don't care where you get your appetite. Just come home for dinner." But by the time I get home, even my sexy lover has trouble turning me on. Maybe I'm too tired. Maybe all those sexual zings during the day deplete me. What do you think?-- W. T., Forest Hills, New York.We think you should try hanging on to those daily turn-ons by "simmering" them, a technique sex therapis...