The Playboy Advisor

June, 2008

I met a gorgeous woman who is every­thing I want—smart, funny, talented and sexy. There is one problem, aside from my being married: She's gay. How do I recon­cile mysell'to never having the kind of rela­tionship I want with her? (1 don't merely want to fuck her; I want to love her.) I am sure thai telling her how 1 feel would end our friendship. She is not the first woman I have fallen for during the 20 years I've been married, just the first who is a les­bian. I suspect most, if not all, marri...