The Playboy Advisor
December, 2008
IVIy girlfriend read this letter before I sent it to make sure you get both sides of the story. Simply, she wants to give me blow jobs, but I'm not interested. She cannot understand why any guy would decline oral sex. The best explanation I've been able to provide is that I regard blow jobs as a submissive act that's somewhat degrading to women. I'm not turned on by seeing the woman I care about with my penis in her mouth— Jenna Jameson maybe, but not her. She says if she wants to go down on me...