Playboy Advisor

January / February, 2013

I heard the term ruined orgasm and decided to do a web search. To my surprise my wife and I have been doing the most com­mon type, "abandoning" the cli­max, for years. I've asked her to thumb or palm my ejaculation, but she won't because she thinks there could be health risks asso­ciated with this form of denial. Can you settle this?—J.M., Phil­adelphia, PennsylvaniaThumbing or palming your ure-thral opening to prevent or slow ejaculation won't cause any harm. The semen will either esc...