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How to Speak Her Love Language

Playboy's Kelly Oxford translates a woman's love language to help you get laid.

Sex & Relationships • October 4, 2026
How to Speak Her Love Language
Written by KELLY OXFORD

In 1992 a Baptist pastor from North Carolina named Gary Chapman wrote The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts, explaining why married people sometimes want to smother each other with a decorative pillow. His theory was that everyone on earth gives and receives love in a handful of specific ways and that […]

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